Jonesy

How about neither? According to recent research, done by myself, this 'opening/closing' business may be drastically different than we think. Why is it i'm able to attract or repel living creatures simply by changing the way I feel? I don't know them... they don't know me... we don't talk... we don't even look at each other, but I can still move them. With practice, i've managed to do it deliberately. I can even make complete strangers sing.

Evidently there is some kind of unspoken transmission taking place. This is something people should research scientifically.

gonzo

Geez Jonsey, I opened this expecting a thread about caskets, lol!

Jonesy

It almost seems like an on/off thing.

From here on out, the research should be easy. I'm pretty sure it goes through walls. Unlike most social science experiments, this can be done honestly.

You could do stuff like get a partner and just sit there trying different things.

Or get multiple people, don't introduce them to each other in any way, don't tell them anything about each other, simply put them in adjoining rooms, so they can't see each other, and then monitor their behavior changes based on who is in the adjoining room.

Checking for distance should also be easy enough... could probably get most of it with a single partner.

Jonesy

You can also do this thing with animals. It's a living creature thing - we all have it.

It might be better with animals, because humans try to control it more.

ciaobox2007

oh, they've already researched this phenomenon.
it's called delusions of grandeur.

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Jonesy

Our bodies help us outwardly express what we have inside. When i'm thinking, I tend to walk around. If I also say what i'm thinking, it seems to release my 'insides' even more.

From what I can tell, there are two inside systems: one for thinking, one for feeling. The human male usually taps into the thinking system. The female taps into the feeling. If my deduction is correct, when you outwardly express your thoughts and feelings, they reach people tapped into the same system.

Jonesy

It's like taking what's inside of you and spreading it out. Like 'God' did with the universe. When we spread out our insides, we become one with 'God' and with each other.

As far as I can tell, we can only activate one system at a time. Which means we are only one with half. Except when we are with our 'lovers'. When they use one system and we use the other, the two become one and are then one with all.

itsmeeeeeee

now your talking about "sex magic"...

i've known some practitioners. they were very bizaar people, and i can't really see any evidence of it working in their lives.

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Jonesy

Based on my research thusfar, you can use one system or the other... not both at the same time. The only exception might be when you are with your other person.

This is not a bad thing necessarily, but as a result, many misunderstandings occur. It is extremely common for a woman (who typically uses the feeling system), to misunderstand a man (who typically uses the thinking system), and vice versa. The fact is, when someone using the feeling system tries to communicate with someone using the thinking system, it fails (and vice versa). This is simply because the two systems are different. It is similar to speaking different languages.

It might be best to continue using one or the other exclusively, as individuals. It helps us to master our respective system. And if it is true we use both simultaneously, when with our other, this should without question be the right path. If we do continue in this fashion, we should learn how to better structure things and deal with people of the other system.

Jonesy

Maybe for me, because of the hyperfocusing, it appears I can switch back and forth. The hyperfocusing itself allows me to give either one more power than it normally has. The reality is though, it takes time to develop one while atrophying the other.

I'd have to wonder if one can be atrophied completely, and if it would be a bad idea to do so.

I suppose the thing remains though - people of the different predominance will have a difficult time understanding one another. Solution?